{"id":352,"date":"2026-07-03T23:40:09","date_gmt":"2026-07-03T22:40:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/?p=352"},"modified":"2026-07-03T23:40:11","modified_gmt":"2026-07-03T22:40:11","slug":"is-a-good-name-better-than-riches-reality-says-otherwise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/?p=352","title":{"rendered":"Is A Good Name Better Than Riches? Reality Says Otherwise"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By Ese Ikefe<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Legendary <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Spider-Man&amp;ved=2ahUKEwifl__yxLeVAxU-WEEAHSSTPXYQFnoECEkQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw2WjI62IrWY_YflbxGMX3iT\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Spider-Man&amp;ved=2ahUKEwifl__yxLeVAxU-WEEAHSSTPXYQFnoECEkQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw2WjI62IrWY_YflbxGMX3iT\">Spider-Man<\/a>\/<a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Iron_Man_(2008_film)&amp;ved=2ahUKEwjY7_2FxbeVAxW2R0EAHQoaAAkQFnoECFEQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw3mWBiFSJK8STJIq5fexMQ0\">Iron Man<\/a> creator <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stan_Lee&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiqh7CgxbeVAxXOS0EAHYKeOyIQFnoECFUQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw2Kr8rK_6awwN2eiBYXUeu0\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stan_Lee&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiqh7CgxbeVAxXOS0EAHYKeOyIQFnoECFUQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw2Kr8rK_6awwN2eiBYXUeu0\">Stan Lee<\/a> was a victim of elder fraud in<br>Los Angeles, United States of America, in 2018 after his wife died. Friends and<br>associates took his money while putting his name on their accounts. The man<br>who invented a $30 billion universe spent his last years waging battles with<br>courts and medical expenses. His reputation was intact, but his bank account<br>wasn\u2019t, and that story got me thinking about the proverb: \u201cA good name is<br>better than riches.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBetter the name than precious ointment; and better the day of one\u2019s death than<br>the day of his birth.\u201d \u2013 Proverbs 22:1. This is a verse I learned as a child, and I<br>think our elders were right when they said reputation is everything, because a<br>good name means trust, honour, and access to things money can\u2019t buy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Reputation brings peace and legacy. I think a character is a reserve of<br>inestimable value that never goes out of style.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stan_Lee&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiqh7CgxbeVAxXOS0EAHYKeOyIQFnoECFUQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw2Kr8rK_6awwN2eiBYXUeu0\">Stan Lee<\/a><\/strong>\u2019s example demonstrates the extent to which such wisdom<br>may fall short when life is on the line.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>READ ALSO:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/?p=302\">Filtered Lives, Real Damage: The Hidden Cost of Social Media For Gen Z Nigeria<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is because respect is potent, but in my humble opinion, it wasn\u2019t his saving<br>grace. So here I am: it\u2019s not all about a good name; money does matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To me, a good name equals reputation, while money is cash and the power to<br>solve problems. They are both important, but not equally important when life is<br>at stake. I have witnessed cash pay school charges for children who have no<br>sponsor, and I have seen it cover hospital charges when doctors insist a deposit<br>must be made first. I have also watched it pay rent when landlords are not okay<br>with \u201cgood character.\u201d Honesty does not stop poverty, and hunger does not<br>negotiate because you are respected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a weak economy, I think money is the buffer between you and disaster. For<br>medicine is a shield, and money is medicine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stan_Lee&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiqh7CgxbeVAxXOS0EAHYKeOyIQFnoECFUQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw2Kr8rK_6awwN2eiBYXUeu0\">Stan Lee<\/a> owned the shield, for he was a celebrity with millions of fans around<br>the world, but he had no control over the money when the exploiters came.<br>There was no better name to cover for him, for his life was saved by money, and<br>his bills couldn\u2019t be paid by a good name but by money. I\u2019ve seen that in<br>systems: liquidity moves quicker than reputation. So a man with a reputation<br>can live for years waiting for money, while a man with money can build a<br>reputation right now. Time is the difference between life and death, and money<br>is time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Money is also an option that reputation cannot provide. I have witnessed good<br>people with good names get glorified and then head home to worry about<br>transport, while a man with money, even with a battered reputation, can pay<br>staff and build schools. Communities can criticise him, but they still use what<br>he built, because praise is rare, but cash has a real impact. If a man is wrongly<br>accused, he may hire expensive attorneys to defend him, and if a man\u2019s name is<br>good but he does not have much money, he may lose everything through the<br>case. Options cost a fortune, and money buys them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>READ ALSO:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/?p=347\">The Dangerous Culture Of \u201cMind Your Business\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Realising priorities means food, shelter, and safety come first. You can\u2019t defend<br>your reputation if you\u2019re dead, and if you\u2019re evicted, you don\u2019t leave a legacy at<br>all. This is not my argument for fraud, but my plea for urgency, because nobody<br>wants swimming lessons when drowning; he wants a rope, and money is that<br>rope. You can build your name when you\u2019re safe, and even at 95, Stan Lee<br>didn\u2019t flinch when he lost his fortune, but if he had protected his finances in the<br>same way, then I think he would have had a different end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I will agree with the elders that they are not wrong at all\u2014Proverbs 22:1 is<br>wisdom, and there are some things money cannot buy back. A good name is<br>long-term capital, because without trust, investors walk away, and a rich man<br>with no name lives in fear with no peace. Money may not buy sleep, but a good<br>name gives you a legacy, for money can end, and markets crash, but honesty<br>will last long after you\u2019re gone and it will be passed to your children. That is the<br>immortality money cannot buy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I\u2019m not going to kill one and pick the other; I\u2019m going to set the order. First,<br>make money legally and aggressively by learning skills that are in demand,<br>creating businesses that address problems, and investing early. A lack of money<br>will put your good name to the test every day with sickness, school fees, and<br>rent, and weakness will lead to compromise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>Secondly, defend your name while collecting income, and I say: don\u2019t cut<br>corners that damage trust, and don\u2019t get rich on lies, because an all-star without<br>a name is a player nobody believes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>I need money for oxygen, and I need a good name for my reputation\u2014oxygen<br>keeps me alive, and a good name helps me live well. In an emergency, oxygen<br>is most important, and reputation can be rehabilitated after, but death cannot.<br>Money is better, not because a good name is worthless, but because money<br>keeps you alive long enough for your name to matter, and a dead man has no<br>reputation, while a broke man cannot fund his legacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>This is what I teach students: do right, do good, maintain a good reputation, and<br>learn <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stan_Lee&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiqh7CgxbeVAxXOS0EAHYKeOyIQFnoECFUQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw2Kr8rK_6awwN2eiBYXUeu0\">Stan Lee<\/a>\u2019s lesson with me. Guard money as you guard your name: take<br>advisors, read contracts, make money, and keep the name. If life forces it,<br>though, I would take the one that keeps me breathing, for it is only a living man<br>who can make a name to be remembered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><strong><em>Ese Ikefe, a 200-level student of Journalism and Media Studies at Delta State<br>University, Abraka, can be reached via\u00a0dominionikefe@gmail.com.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Ese Ikefe Legendary Spider-Man\/Iron Man creator Stan Lee was a victim of elder fraud inLos Angeles, United States of America, in 2018 after his wife died. Friends andassociates took his money while putting his name on their accounts. The manwho invented a $30 billion universe spent his last years waging battles withcourts and medical [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":353,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"iawp_total_views":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,15],"tags":[74,75,76,77,78],"class_list":["post-352","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-trendingnews","category-viewspoint","tag-good-name","tag-mass-communication","tag-spider","tag-spider-man","tag-stan-lee"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=352"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":368,"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352\/revisions\/368"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/353"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=352"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=352"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mediaconversation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=352"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}